Fall has finally (maybe) arrived in Atlanta, and I did a fall closet purge that was long overdue. To be clear, this isn’t some annual purge. My history is sporadic sweeps where I toss a few things and talk myself into keeping the rest. I kept looking at those crowded hangers, knowing damn well I wasn't going to wear most of what was in there. I found 6-inch platform heels that belonged in a time capsule, right next to the peplum tops and blazers we used to wear out to the club back in the...

I know, I know, it’s been a minute, Sis! If you're wondering where I’ve been for nearly 2 years, the short answer is I was busy having another baby and doing exactly what I tell my clients to do. Prioritizing what actually matters in the season I’m in. My youngest just had his first birthday. Which means I've spent this whole stretch deep in the exact window where attachment gets built, moment by moment, mostly in ways too small to notice while they're happening. Here's why I'm telling you...

So if you’ve seen A Christmas Carol, or any derivative of it then you know “The Ghost of Relationships Future” is an admonishing ghost. ...